Stages

Your heart looks for healing Within smiles that have sorrow dancing in the words they gift you. You fall for words which falls for hurt which then both falling makes things worse and maybe you can fall for what's worth, but have you ever understood what it means to fall and how you've always been falling since birth? We fall for hope, for promises, for what we want and what we become, and to fall means to leave ourselves vulnerable to the clutches of this world, to leave our sanity on display, shop window, please come rob me, my heart is in my hands and thus my alarms are disabled, to fall means to drawn and drowning means death. in essence, We in” ourselves when we chose to love. And it’s not as disturbing as it sounds, as depressing as it sounds, though love has its tendency to make us attach ourselves to those emotions, but we destroy who we were and we change, And we all hate to admit it but love does change us. Maybe physically or mentally or even spiritually, we all alter ourselves to fit the characteristics of someone worthy of being loved in the eyes of our beloved, by falling we are reborn, so when you fall in love you actually grow from the ground, your roots are fresh and strong. Befriended by increased self-confidence and a helping hand that Will shower your plant With sunlight and water it with lovmg words and attachment so that you are not left prey, prey to your own thoughts that make you hate change, to bury yourself in the ground again so that you become who you were before love. These changes aren't necessarily negative, though they can be, but we grow and the essence of growth is positvity, and you won't find that growth in a garden where your sail is littered With false words, empty promises, the rums of past lovers that have wrecked their garden so that nothing else may grow and even if the sprout blossoms, the weeds Will halt your growth and you'll stop growing and find yourself stuck in the same cycles of heartbreak. So when you decide to love, love somebody who Will shower your garden with forgiveness and empathy, who’s rays of sunshine emit self-love and space, you don't want to be become entangled Within Vines that strangle you and a garden that only leads to your death.